Ok, let's concentrate on this forced issue then.
Why are men "forced" into service? The draft, correct? And what allows men to be drafted? Laws set forth by our governement. Those laws determine who is elligible to be drafted. Now, let's assume just for a moment that women are allowed to be inducted into the infantry. They are not given a different set of standards for entry, there is only one standard to allow only the best and fittest in. Now, along comes a time of war and it is necessary to draft individuals for our army. Since women are now allowed to be in infantry,they are drafted alongside men. HOWEVER, here is where LAW comes into effect. Men are drafted first and then women. When a woman is drafted they check to see if she is married or single. If she is married they check to see if her husband is also in the military. If he is, then she is granted a pardon and not drafted. Voila.
And Byblos, your assumption that men are more willing to kill than women lacks something. Do these people kill or do they murder? Any Christian will tell you there is a difference between killing and murdering, that little commandment is more properly translated, "Thou shalt not MURDER". Those people sitting in jail have murdered, not killed. Now the question arises, are men or women more willing to kill and die for there country? If you're going to answer this question, please have something to back it up, like statistics or study.