What would you do if you cought your spouse cheat

Yeah I heard about this psycho.
Does it matter how much the freaking car cost? I saw it in the news, in my paper, and now online: 70000 dollar car......does it alter it if it were a 4000 dollar car? No. Why do they always have to say its price?!
I think this woman needs to be taken outside and promptly shot.
I think that's how our justice system should work. We take our murderer here, who confesses to the crime, all evidence points to her, take her outside and shoot her, on live TV.
So....I could go and kill anyone I dislike because of sudden passion. That is bullcrap. And they know it.
This woman went too far.
If I caught my spouse cheating, and they didn't know it, I would go outside and come home later, and pretend that nothing happened, quietly plotting my revenge.
That's what I would do. I wouldn't beat the crap out of the guy right away. I would work a formula for extensive pain and torture on the guy, maybe slowly chip away at his life, and ruin his career, until he goes bonkers and is locked up.
That's what I would do.
 
You're talking like she's been acquitted or something, the trial is still going on but she will most likely be convicted. Her own daughter who was IN the car with her testified against her.
 
Avatar, now that's not nice.

Personally I would confront her, then try to rebuild our marriage from the ground up. With forgiveness, and Christ.
 
What I find most interesting is that her initial defense was that it was an "accident". Uh-huh, right. How stupid do you think we are?
 
I've got to be honest, I'd be constructive and openminded with my spouse, but I'd probably arrange for the other guy to have a little "accident" on the way home one night. ;)

Eon
 
Avatar - that was VERY Christian of you. You make Uncle Damar proud. Atta boy.
 
Oh I'm not proud of what I say, but it's what I'd probably do. I would plot some serious revenge for the punk that did it, and I would plot something a little less mean for my wife.
Then I'd reconcile.
I know it is very un-Christian of me, but my first reaction would probably be to do that. I wouldn't be murderous about it, though, Eon.
That'd be my initial sinful reaction. Though in all truthfulness, I think I'd probably be far less vengeful than that. I would have to rebuild a relationship back with my wife, for sure, because I can see it is possible: my friend's dad did with his wife. It would be difficult, but I'd be able to pull it off I think, especially with the power of God. I can be very, very, very mean sometimes, especially when I just block God out of my life. So I try real hard to let him in my life at all times.
BUt I dunno. I'm not married as I said. There are so many scenarios to contemplate: the Christian one, where I talk it over with my wife, or limitless numbers of non-Christian ones. I would hope I would pick the Christian one, but I guess it all depends.
 
Divorce. If we had kids, try to reconcile, but if shes stubborn, divorce sue.

Ultimatly, the goal is NOT to marry, but anyway...
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Ultima, you prove to me once more that you don't have a leg to stand on. You do real well retyping someone else's sermons, but you have nothing (personally) to show for your persuasion.

You're just as aggressive, self-centered, imbalanced and easily angered as us hellbound heathens. You're just screaming lines from a different book than we do. You just take on a little mask with a cross on it and delight in the fact that you "belong."

You don't. You just pretend that you do. You think you can have your cake (normal life with some of the more "evil" elements excluded) and eat it too (go to Heaven).

You can't. And you won't. All you are is a little wannabe zealot who isn't fooling anyone because he contradicts himself at every other step. You won't even exercise restraint when you're called on to do so. If you had half a chance with whatever woman you're currently fantacizing about, you'd bag her just as surely as I would.

So, as Darth Vader would say, search your feelings, you'll know it's true. Someday you won't have a Christian self-help book to fall back on when another Damar Stiehl comes along. Whatcha gonna do then, boyee?
 
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You and me have got some problems to work out, boy-ee. I'm starting to think you have a personal agenda against me, and I am all game for that.
Ah, no. I don't even listen to sermons, let alone quote from them. The Bible's about it, and some Christian apologetics I read now and again.
I challenge you, my little Comrade, to find me the sermons I'm retyping, and show me what I retyped. Until then, I recommend you read what the teen has to offer and leave it as is.
I am an aggressive, imbalanced and easily angered young man. I won't deny it. Sometimes they get me in buku trouble. Ask the Muhrs. Ask my parents. Ask my schools. Ask me. I am easily angered, and it is a bad thing when I am. I am violent at times, but not uber-violent. I won't say if I'm self-centered or not. I think you can judge that by my posts. I won't myself. As for imbalanced, definitely so. I switch from thought to thought, and mood to mood. Sometimes I'm your best friend, others I'm your worst enemy. I'll smile at you and hate you on the inside.
(Shrugs) I didn't lost my human sin when I became a Christian. It is so said. I am still flesh, and in that, I must battle it and conquer sin. It is said, "Resist the devil, and he will flee." I believe it. I can resist sin. But I don't all the time. ANd that's not good.
I can live this life, and I can avoid sin. Proverbs and Psalms enunciates multiple times to avoid evildoers and their ways, and I try. It gets easy with age. And I will attain heaven at the end. If I doubted that, or I let your words cause that doubt, well, my faith in the end isn't too stable is it, now? I can live this life, and I can believe I will end up in heaven. SO yeah I can. Watch me do it.
I rarely restrain when told to at first. It takes about ten times to do it. Not necessarily a bad thing, but not a good thing at all. I restrain myself when necessary. Believe me. I'm restraining right now as I respond. As for contradictions, who doesn't? I don't deny I probably have a thousand here. Show me some.
And that's bang, not bag. And no I wouldn't. It's call self-restraint, and discipline. Some things you're unfamiliar with, it would seem.
I don't read Christian self-help books unless required to.
So...once you have got some hardcore evidence against my faith, I give you permission to try and bash me again.
 
Actually boyee, "bag" is as valid as "bang" in that case. And knowing that I make my case to a teenager ought to make this a waste of my time... but hell... I enjoy getting you all worked up. I'm an immature and selfish sumbich like that.

Hardcore evidence against Christianity is strewn all over the world. Your faith, and various interpretations of it, is responsible for a goodly amount of hatred, depravity and prejudice that we all live with. Don't bother telling me that "false" Christianity is responsible for the said depravity. What's false to you isn't false to someone else.

You oughtta open your eyes a bit. Live a few more years. Get out. Get an education. Try to figure out how the world works for yourself. Stop suckling on the proverbial teat and try to make headway on your own.

It'll take you a few years, but perhaps there's still hope for you... or not... I've met 40-year-old men that stand on the street screaming "Pornography is a wicked sin, love waits for marriage, Jesus is coming after you with a BFG9000, repent or burn!" THAT is plain straight sad.
 
I highly doubt that they would use a videogame term to enunciate a fate...especially forty-year old men.
I seem to notice you didn't find me those sermons I requested...have you given up so easily? Huh. I expected more of a challenge to my faith than that. Or is destroying my faith too little of importance to you now that I offer a challenge?
I would think that a departure from the love of God would be rather responsible for a lot of hate around the world. But yes, Christianity has been blamed, and rightfully so, for some atrocities, namely the Catholic Crusades that were advanced in the name of Christ, to end the paganism of the Muslims, and eventually, the Jews.
The Bible says that through the Spirit I am able to discern the truth. I can see what is false and what is not. If you were in the Spirit, you would as well. And then....on that note, saying that false Christianity is to blame, and then saying that what's false to me is not false to you, is a contradiction...In total, you just stated that Christianity is responsible for many good things, and all atrocities on something else. I tell you, man, learn how to communicate, or else you'll never get anywhere in your debates with me. "False Christianity is to blame..." "False to you is not false to me" Ergo, Christianity is not to blame for any bad stuff.
Tsk, tsk.
Believe me, I've seen a lot. A lot more than I should have, but I've seen just about it all. Only yet to witness a murder. Then I'll have seen it all.
And you know, there are such thing as "misled", "antichrists", "those of the world", and "deceived". Not every man who proclaims Christianity actually is living for Christ. You should know that.
 
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Quote[/b] ]Your faith, and various interpretations of it, is responsible for a goodly amount of hatred, depravity and prejudice that we all live with.
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I'd hate to inject some fact into this discussion, but politics, land, jealousy, and various other faiths(and lack there-of) have also cause a good deal of hatred, depravity, and prejudice.
 
Ultima my boy, until you've been on BOTH ends of a firearm AND pulled the trigger, don't you dare tell me that you've seen a lot. You're just a greenhorn who thinks that he's experienced and jaded already. You and a trillion other greenhorns.

And don't you dare twist what I said. To me ALL flavours of your faith are false. But amongst your own kind, there are quite a few persuasions whose zeal (and stupidity) would make even you quiver. Tell me, would you (for example) dare to stand on a pulpit and tell people in front of you, in great detail, about homosexuals' secret plan to take over the world?

Nonsense, right my boy? Unchristian nonsense at that, no? Who would EVER listen to a preacher whose brain is THAT far gone? A fairly sizeable congregation, actually, plus a few more people on TV. The preacher's name is John Hagee, and he's somewhat of a celebrity among baptists. Look him up sometime. Who knows, you might like his nonsense.

(I listened to that sermon in person. The "secret plan" quoted by John Hagee, after some research, turned out to be a satire article from a gay magazine. One can only wonder just what Pastor Hagee does in his spare time).
 
Really? Coolness.
I never heard of John Hagee but after reading that I did some research....yeah, I don't like guys like him. Besides the idiocy and the materialism, men like him don't preach the Word: they preach a watered-down God. And I don't like that. Not a bit.
I don't think I'm experienced. I don't think I've seen it all. I haven't ever shot at someone, never been shot, but you know, I've been in my share of fights. Not anything spectacular.
But I've been around. Not as jaded as you, no doubt. Not as many years under the belt. By the time I'm your age, I'll be as jaded as you and your dad and his dad put together.
And, umm, if you READ my posts carefully, you'll see that I, and I quote, said, "And you know, there are such thing as "misled", "antichrists", "those of the world", and "deceived". Not every man who proclaims Christianity actually is living for Christ. You should know that."
Men like Hagee are of those categories.
On a sidenote...what purpose did that last post of yours have to serve?
 
i think he's pointing out that the bad thing about being a sheep is that you don't get to pick the wolves, and you don't get to pick the shepherd.

You just get to bleat.

Eon
 
Well that puts ME in perspective! Thanks dude.
Just kidding. The thing about being a sheep is that it's ever so possible to become a shepherd. Christ refers to the leaders of the Church as shepherds, and those not well known in God as sheep, or those not in God at all as sheep. Interesting terminology, since sheep are basic idiots. And it takes a stick to make them go in the right direction.
True. I don't have to pick the ultimate shepherd, I already have. Nor do I pick my wolves: they pick themselves. But I can pick my earthly shepherds: I don't have to listen to people like Hagee, or to people like Graham, or to people like my pastor: I could pick to listen to myself preach. Who knows? I can pick my shepherd, but I can't pick my Shepherd, if you get what I mean. Billy Graham can't save me. John Hagee can't save me. Only Jesus Christ can.
What can I say? Blind devotion.
 
See the thing about blind devotion in sheep (and I've heard pastors/fathers/vicars refer to their congregation as a flock) is that blind devotion in sheep, ninety nine times out of a hundred, leads to pasture or to the shearing pen.

But there's always that one time out of a hundred where it leads to the abbatoir.

Me, I like my place as a wolf. Rain on my face, wind in my nose and a healthy relationship with my Gods.

Eon
 
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