RiverTigress
Moderator
Proverbs 24:30-31 I went by the field of the slothful, and by the vineyard of the man void of understanding; And, lo, it was all grown over with thorns, and nettles had covered the face thereof, and the stone wall thereof was broken down.
It is not uncommon to see someone trying to achieve something important to them put all of their being into that achievement only to become confused and dismayed later on watching that thing fall apart before their eyes simply because they did not think to budget some of themselves for the necessary maintenance afterwards. It can be tempting to feel wronged somehow by this when we consider things in terms of what we put into them or what sacrifices we made for the sake of it, but the unavoidable truth is that everything substantial, be it material, spiritual, vocational, relationship, or whatever, has a real maintenance cost that must continue to be paid in order to preserve that thing long after the initial acquisition has been made. If something is important to us we must be sure to budget for its long term loving care or we will suffer watching its inevitable decay and loss.