Gandhi said:
tolerance of sinfull behavior?
What if what u find sinfull is different to what they find sinfull.
Well, I suppose that would depend on how intolerable I personally thought the sin was, what the bible had to say about it, and what I would think the best course of action would be to deal with it.
Obviously, murder, pedophilia, rape, theft, etc. are all intolerable actions, because they violate/take away another person's life or rights. Western society (and most of the world and it's religions) seems to be pretty much in agreement there.
But when it comes to behaviour that does not infringe on another person's life or rights, and if we all agree to enter into a free society with all the perks and limitations that that entails, then things get a little more gray, as the debates that are raging over homosexual marriage and other hot buttons issues can attest to.
At any rate, I don't think you respond to (biblical) sin with more sin. You don't respond to abortions by bombing a clinic. You don't ignore the plight of AIDS or HIV patients because of the stigma carried with the disease.
Did that answer your question?
As for Dark Virtue's *original* question, about tolerence of people's points of view (again, as he pointed out, *not* talking about being tolerant of sin), I think he has a point. If we're not going to show some respect, how can we expect respect in return? "Dialogue" should be the focus, not "monologue".
I'm reminded of my previous Pastor, who read the Koran so that he might be better informed about it and speak intelligently on its teachings. When a muslim aquaintence learned that this Pastor had read the Koran, he promised to go read the Bible. Since my Pastor had taken the time to learn about Islam, this man was going to take some time to learn about Christianity.
If nothing more came of that experience other than a deeper relationship and understanding between these two men, than that was still a more beneficial exchange than one person doing all the talking and then leaving when the other person doesn't agree.