Mr_Slice said:
I think you're missing my point. The discussion that goes on here with Dark Virtue and other non-believers is not witnessing. It's defense of our faith. DV is not here with an open heart and mind wanting to learn about God. From what I read, he is asking us to answer questions and things he doesn't understand about why Christians belive the way that they do. My point is, you cannot witness to someone who is not yet open to receiving the Lord. First comes God softening a person's heart. So as I said, what goes on here is mostly Christians explaining themselves, not witnessing.
(This is just my observation. I know that I am probably not 100% correct, but this is how I perceive things.)
You're not quite correct.
I am not, as you said, here with an open heart. I am here, however, with an open MIND. Remember all that talk about logic, reason, proof, etc? You can't judge that with your heart.
If you give me proof and evidence then I don't need to a soft heart open to suggestion. Facts are facts, proof is proof and the truth is the truth.
The problem that I have, here and in my daily life, can be summed up by what heiscominsoon said:
Why would a Christian ever change their viewpoint? If they did that..they undermine the very faith they say they support.
If YOU aren't willing to admit you could be wrong, then why should ANYONE that you are witnessing to? That's tantamount to saying that you don't respect anyone else's views, but you want them to respect yours.
I have stated many, many times that I am more than willing to be proven wrong. It's the only way that one can grow. How many Christians here have been willing to say the same thing?
This is why many view Christianity as arrogant and why discussions such as these are incredibly frustrating.