CCGR
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I have an aunt who is from Argentina and has managed to anger every single one of my family members. They have moved to Wisconsin to avoid them even (speculating). We've helped them come to Christianity (but they have a lot of learning to to ie. forgiveness) and I've always been there for her...even if it was just to listen to her rant. She has a big heart but limited access to it. Anyways she is now mad at me and wants nothing to do with us now either! I've always been on thin ice and apologized when I have wronged her. But she never apologizes to me and does not see any of this family situation as partially her fault.
So my question is..I have by far given my best effort. But apparently it's not good enough. She wants seclusion fine...but is there any more I can do fo her biblically other than pray? I've been fogiving but if she can't live up to her end of owning up for things I just see the relationship as one sided. I can't speak my mind or she gets mad at me.
Any thoughts or encouragement would be appreciated.
I have an aunt who is from Argentina and has managed to anger every single one of my family members. They have moved to Wisconsin to avoid them even (speculating). We've helped them come to Christianity (but they have a lot of learning to to ie. forgiveness) and I've always been there for her...even if it was just to listen to her rant. She has a big heart but limited access to it. Anyways she is now mad at me and wants nothing to do with us now either! I've always been on thin ice and apologized when I have wronged her. But she never apologizes to me and does not see any of this family situation as partially her fault.
So my question is..I have by far given my best effort. But apparently it's not good enough. She wants seclusion fine...but is there any more I can do fo her biblically other than pray? I've been fogiving but if she can't live up to her end of owning up for things I just see the relationship as one sided. I can't speak my mind or she gets mad at me.
Any thoughts or encouragement would be appreciated.