Update. Sorry this is old news (about a week), but it's been so hard to find a good opportunity to bring you up to speed. I did not get the job, but it's fine. I was a little disappointed at first, but not so much about not doing that particular job. Just not sure yet how I'll manage to find more time with my family now. But really, it's okay like this. I was really optimistic going into it, but the interview day didn't leave the best taste in my mouth as far as some of the people. And the job description turns out it's still not even set in stone. Before, I thought it was going to be about half stuff I'm not as interested in (though I tried to gear myself up to be interested in it) and half stuff that I really would have a lot of fun doing. Well, turns out that the less enjoyable (to me) half might end up being almost the entire job. With little to none of the part I'd like more. And had it not worked out for any reason, the non-compete agreement was really bad. So...it's fine. I am still frustrated about many things at work, but I do find myself thinking, "I'm so glad I can still do [this or that]."
So anyway, I think it turned out the way it should. Still looking for a way out of my current situation, but okay with the way things are right now. Thanks for your prayers!
(I can elaborate if you want me to, hard to be concise when I had a lot of thoughts on the matter!)