ppar3566
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Woven I think you may have missed an important distiction. There appears to be different comands for judging chrisitans verses non-chrisitians. This cuts to the heart of the arguement. I think we need to be much more strict with ourselves and with our fellow Chrisitans. I think the point is that if we are spending time getting our own life right we don't really have time to judge non-chrisitans.
There is also a practical and psychological point to be made here:
Practically going around judging non-chrisitans for their action on the whole does not lead them to be more accepting of the gospel message. In fact i would argue that it quite frequently does the opposite.
I also think there is often a deeply personal motive for judging homosexuals and abortion etc that is not wholly worthy (i don't think this is you btw I write this as others may use your words as justification for this issue). I think many people judge because it is easy, especially when you don't have to if you don't want to interact and put yourself in the place of such people. Thus chrisitans often judge because they can get their fix of satisfaction from "building God's Kingdon', without ever doing anything practical or difficult. Trust me i once judged every homosexual I could find and tell them they were wrong. It made me feel good and i never had to connect with their world. Now that i have homosexual friends i see that what I did was hollow and hurtful and done for my own gratification. I tell my friends what i believe but only when they ask and i do it in as loving a manner as possible. Mainly i aspire to show them there is something to this whol;e christian thing by the way I live. I hqave found this more difficult and painful but infinitly more effective.
There is also a practical and psychological point to be made here:
Practically going around judging non-chrisitans for their action on the whole does not lead them to be more accepting of the gospel message. In fact i would argue that it quite frequently does the opposite.
I also think there is often a deeply personal motive for judging homosexuals and abortion etc that is not wholly worthy (i don't think this is you btw I write this as others may use your words as justification for this issue). I think many people judge because it is easy, especially when you don't have to if you don't want to interact and put yourself in the place of such people. Thus chrisitans often judge because they can get their fix of satisfaction from "building God's Kingdon', without ever doing anything practical or difficult. Trust me i once judged every homosexual I could find and tell them they were wrong. It made me feel good and i never had to connect with their world. Now that i have homosexual friends i see that what I did was hollow and hurtful and done for my own gratification. I tell my friends what i believe but only when they ask and i do it in as loving a manner as possible. Mainly i aspire to show them there is something to this whol;e christian thing by the way I live. I hqave found this more difficult and painful but infinitly more effective.