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Hey guys in HsC, i kno the terms say for a complaint u must have done everything possible to resolve it first but i have and i kno that 2 of u r rly mad at me but if u would plz just here me out. First off, i must say that i am sry for acting the way i did in yur guild and i do not expect to ever get back in HsC although i will miss it dearly with all the friends i made. Thank u though for giving me a chance to be in your guild and for putting up with me for as long as u did. Now, this last time, i kno i shouldve kept out of the business about bonita and w/e happened to her. I am sry for buttin in, but it seemed like i was being attacked for trying to see what went wrong and when i tried to talk to ryan to see if i could give suggestions, it was taken as something bad, which confused me. Now i kno theres probably more to it than that but im sry that im not that mature yet and dont see what the problem is there. Also, i kno that i went crazy about the whole east coast west coast thing. I'm sry for making a whole deal about one person not being able to be there. But the way u guys handled it just seemed weird and wrong in a couple of ways. On the HsC forums, ryan said he would handle problems to the best of his ability, and diana also said she would take care of the events. So i went to diana to see if she could fix the problem (i realize now that it was completely selfish of me) but she just put me over to ryan our guild leader, so now i told ryan about it and he kept telling me that i was falsely accusing people and i didnt kno what i was talking about and that i was wrong. I am sry for doing all this even though i dont quiet understand it but finally ryan told me to not say one more peep. I understood that i wouldnt say anything else about the topic but when i tried to talk to another officer in the alliance ryan kicked me, all becuz i just tried to talk to someone. Is it me, or does that seem completely unethical to u? I didnt see y i couldnt talk to someone else in the alliance, ryan had right what so ever in the entire world to stop me from talking and i kno that ryan has a history of over reacting when he gets mad. So plz, diana and ryan, or anyone else in the guild, instead of ignoring me and telling me to go away and not deal with me, plz, can u tell me y u did that? i wasnt going to talk anymore about the other topic, just wanted to talk to another officer. Im sry that im 13 and dont understand it all but then again, y did u tell me that im not listening? y didnt u guys actaully try to help me instead of shunning me, that does not seem very christian like at all (i kno that this whole thing seems like a big selfish deal but i would like to end this in a mature way and try to at least settle things between me and ryan and diana)
 
I will try to keep as many details out of this post as possible (since this is not the place for this discussion), but would like to address a few specific points.

1) We know that the event was not well-organized last night. It wasn't until Saturday when Raven told me she was looking to do FoW that I realized we hadn't even posted anything on the SoE forums. Whoops! I had already apologized to her for this. Secondly, I understand it is annoying for many people (myself included!) when an event scheduled @ 8 doesn't get going until 8:45. The plan (I believe) is to have people show up at 7:45 in the future and leave promptly at 8. Considering this was the first go at it, we let it slide, and I feel that was the right thing to do.

2) As I understand it, Bonnie had to go at 10-10:30. Leaving 45 minutes late did not affect her being able to finish...she would not have been able to regardless. In addition, nobody ever said she could not come. In fact, not only did we say she could still come along knowing full well we'd be left short-handed in one of the toughest areas of the game, but the entire thing was originally planned at 8 instead of 9 to accomodate her. In summation, we did everything within reason (and then some) to accomodate everybody.

3) I have taken you off of ignore, so I will address the rest of your claims next time we get a chance to talk in game rather than talk about all that muck here. However, I will just say that we put up with stuff from you for over an hour in ally, guild chat, and PMs before "over reacting". I think this is reasonable, considering this is far from the first occurance.
 
Ryan, u did not even answer to me y u kicked me off when all i did was try to talk to an officer, and secondly i could care less that u guys started late or it wasnt well organized, i was worrying about what happened to bonnie and im sry if that offended u in the way that i approached u, but at least try to act mature and tell me what i did wrong, like i said befor, and i mean its a game, u cant hear how ppl talk or the emotions they have, i literally felt sry for bonnie, whether or not it was her own doing that she got mad, and wanted to see what happened, i did think u over reacted about that
 
I am being vague on some of these things because as I said above, SoE's forums is not the place for this discussion. You can PM me in our forums or in game if you would like to talk about this. It would not be right for me to air your or Bonnie's dirty laundry here.
 
haha yah right, all hes doing is ignoring me, i talked to him earlier today and he says he loves and all that but hes just trying to get me away, he wouldnt let me join another chrstian guild in the alliance and and earlier, he kicked bonnie, i mean rnt we as christians supposed to put aside differences and help ppl, it certainly doesnt seem like u r trying to help bonnie, i kno she can scream and get mad and get the stort confused sometimes but at least dont just kick her off the guild, so no, he is definetly not handling this well
 
As Christians, we are to forgive...this doesn't mean to say it, it means to mean it. If we hate our brother, we have murdered him in our hearts. In other words, even if we have nothing to do with a conflict...if we allow ourselves to become hateful, we become just as guilty as the offender. So yes, we are to forgive, and we are to love.

This does not equate to "let everybody get away with anything they want, and don't try to call them on it", nor does it mean "ok guys, here are my commandments, remember them...unless you are only 13, then you can do as you please, with no fear of correction from others". Our father in heaven corrects us because he loves us, and he wants to see us grow. We are also commanded to lovingly correct others, for this same reason (see Matt 18:15-17). If you are honestly wanting to know why you were kicked, please refer to the policy I wrote up after kicking you the first time:
http://www.homeslicecrew.com/Forums/tabid/54/forumid/6/threadid/548/scope/posts/Default.aspx

As for not "letting" you join another guild...the first time you left us, it was due to frequent fighting with members. Please recall that because I felt that the fights were partly two-sided, I went out of my way to help find you a new guild home in the alliance. I told them what went on, told them I really think you are a good kid but just lose your head when you lose your temper (which was often), and they invited you over. This is a little different, though. For one, this is not the first time. Secondly, you seemed very intent on "showing me that I could not keep you out of ally chat". Moments later, I find out you had asked one of our members to ask for officers of Cros or WWJD so that you could join them. I do not feel it is appropriate for you to circumvent a kick by hopping to a new guild, and I am not sure how you do, either. So, I have talked with folks from WWJD and Cros, and they (at least the folks I talked to) seem to be on the same page.

Do you realize that you said "all hes doing is ignoring me" and "i talked to him earlier today" in the same sentence? Please, please, please take this to PM via this forum or HsC's. If you insist on posting here, I will respond, but again, I won't get into the specifics because this is not the place. As such, I really do not forsee a fruitful conversation here.
 
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