The main characters of Final Fantasy games just kept getting more and more effeminate until they finally just switched genders! But that's good news.
I'd prefer a female protagonist over an effeminate man-child. Celes and Terra (from FFVI) are two of my favorite RPG characters. I know the series--at least in terms of characters and storytelling--peaked with FFVI, but I still hold more hope for a female lead than yet another CloudSquall character.
As for FFXII, it was a beautiful game, truly. Some of the side characters were genuinely interesting, but I just couldn't stay interested. I played about 10 hours into the game then quit when I ran into trouble in some desert area.
EDIT: But no matter how disappointed I've been by certain FF titles (VIII and X immediately come to mind), I'll still want to play at least a few hours of FFXIII for myself. If I ever do buy a 360 or PS3, I know I'll rent it at some point.