Did Medjai get excommunicated?

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Dear Medjai and Everybody else,

I am an old man, and let me tell you -- this is the third time in my sheltered life that I have heard the same story -- a girl yelling rape when a boyfriend, father, or husband walks in or finds out.

So, therefore, do not ever trust in a "one night stand". They can simply turn too sour. do you want Kolbe Bryant as a roomate?

Before, you used to be able to discredit these sluts in court. But the Feminist Revolution makes that harder and harder. They can be as slutty as the day is long, but after they holler "rape", you're screwed and you're going to do hard time.

So we need to go back to an old fashioned system of dating, just to protect ourselves. 1. Become formally introduced. 2. First meeting over 'coffee' or 'lunch' which does not count as a date. 3. Only a little kiss the most allowable on the first date. 4. Make up your mind after the third date. You don't really like her, then don't call her again. If you like her, then acknowledge that you are moving toward a binding commitment. 5. what are you crazy!? Women will only take over and be your boss, pick out silly clothes for you to wear, make you go 'shopping', watch chick flicks, take all your money, make you miserable and make you wish for death as your only relief from the torture of endless nagging! Run! Run as fast as you can and don't look back!
 
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Quote[/b] (Leo Volont @ Oct. 11 2003,11:21)]what are you crazy!? Women will only take over and be your boss, pick out silly clothes for you to wear, make you go 'shopping', watch chick flicks, take all your money, make you miserable and make you wish for death as your only relief from the torture of endless nagging! Run! Run as fast as you can and don't look back!
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hahahahahahahhahah

sage advice, if there ever was any!
 
Hooollllllly crap, set apart faeces. Oh geez.
That sucks something bad, Medjai. I am so sorry for you. You will have my prayers (what reassurance they are to you, I am sure, is nil, but hey, it's something I can do, and I pray that Christ hears me and...does something for you and your family).
Again, deepest sympathies and prayers. Man. I am so sorry dude.
 
Medjai I would like to post what you are going through in a prayer request forum at another website. I of course would only use the bluntest of information. But I wanted to secure your permission first.
 
Pop, my step-brother, the one that is being charged is a Christian, and he wants prayer, out of respect for him I give you permission to do this. Of course HE is the one who is in the most trouble over this, so he would appreciate your prayers.

Also, I don't believe your prayers will have any effect, but I still see it as a gesture of kindness in that you are essentially showing support. So I am still thankful.

-- I just told my step brother he was in your guys' prayers and it made him smile --

Ya, this whole situation does really suck, I look at it as a life challenge that I need to overcome.

On the bright side, this incident is really bringing my family together.
 
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Quote[/b] (Medjai @ Oct. 12 2003,12:34)]Pop, my step-brother, the one that is being charged is a Christian, and he wants prayer, out of respect for him I give you permission to do this. Of course HE is the one who is in the most trouble over this, so he would appreciate your prayers.

Also, I don't believe your prayers will have any effect, but I still see it as a gesture of kindness in that you are essentially showing support. So I am still thankful.
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Thank you for the permission. I shall post them now.
 
Nothing like sweet tragedy to unite the distant family together for a few months before drifting apart once more. Mmm! Humans are so screwed up in the heads.

My family. Geez. Are you Mexican (err...forgive me, make it politically correct: "are you Hispanic") Medjai? If you are, you'll know what I'm talking about. Distant family members, mothers die, will claims are misplaced, hidden, taken without permission, lawsuits are filed, fat turds of aunts and sisters and brothers and uncles and cousins ignore taxes so they can satiate their diabetic guts...errr. Mexicans piss me off sometimes.
Yeah but what my family's going through is zero to yours dude.



Yeah. THAT will make you feel better. Lol, sorry, dude. But needed some levity. Your situation's really bugging me in my spirit stuff.
 
What makes me so angry is the fact that this girl is lying, and in the process *TOTALLY DESTROYING* Medjai's family. Ugh, it almost makes me shake with anger, and almost makes me cry. Ugh, so angry.
 
Anger will get you no where unless you have a plan my good Timor.

Ultima, I am not Mexican, my step brother is 1/2 Mexican and 1/2 Greek. He has very dark brown skin and has an entirely Greek facial structure, its rather funny but the girls seem to dig it. He has a large family, his grandmother had fourteen children. Than again, my grandmother on my father's side had seventeen children. Its rather rare to see a white kid with a family larger than that of most Mexican ones. I am one of the exceptions lol. Yes I definately know what your talking about.
 
Hey man, Medjai said it brought 'em together. Can that be destroying it?
Maybe.
How do you know she's lying? I would suspect she is (after all...I trust women, in general (I'm sorry, Cheryl) about as far as I can throw 'em, and I avoid the heavy ones) but still... you take the term 'inappropiate behavior' and it can be anything, but that's just for us. You take whatever they say they did in court, and it will be blown out of proportion. Trust me, in the courts, she's telling the truth.

But as for true truth, is she? I dunno. I would believe Medjai's words, and if his stepbrother is a Christian, well...people do stupid things. And if his brother is not that kind of guy, Christian or no, I would give him more credence. However, it could also be familial backing up. So I can't tell right now and this is not my spot to determine.
All I know is this: I AM NOTHING0!
 
First of all, I know she is lying for one reason only. I back up my assertions by evidence.

When I went to talk to her with Chris on the same friday that her boyfriend almost jumped him she had no bruises on her arms. She was a mere three feet away from me with short sleeves. When she filed the police report she was "badly bruised".

Further she changed her story three times before giving the police her story.

Like I said, I can't go into detail on this (I can AFTER) the case though.

Just trust me, I know with an absolute certainty that she is lying, as for how much she is lying I can only go by the fact that Chris tells me everything (no matter how incriminating) and that he is a good person who literally wouldn't even consider the things he is being accused of.

Such as holding her down so a friend could touch her breasts and dragging her to a car by her arms. Further, he doesn't drive a car, he drives a TRUCK!

Ultima, I don't hold spite for what your saying as if it were one of you I would be suspicious of 'familial backing' as well.
 
Also, what Timor means by destroying our family is this.

If Chris is convicted, he will be marked as a sexual offender for life, and that's after he gets out of prison. Imagine trying to find a job and having to say "I am a sexual offender." when asked what felony you commited.

Further, the fact that she is suing my family for all we have will leave us on the streets.

My family is already poor (our anual income is below the state poverty line) so we will not be able to pay this off easily at all. Thus it will force us to move out of a home of sixteen years (I wasn't even born when we moved here).

This may be bringing us closer temporarily, but in the long run this will cause more destruction than good.
 
Ah. Profundity shed. Gracias. And yeah, didn't mean to be offensive, so thanks for no offense taken. The situations gets murkier, and my anger and sympathy grow.
Question for ya Medjai: what US state, if any, do you live in? Ignore it if you think it's prying, but I would just like to know.
 
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Quote[/b] (Medjai @ Oct. 11 2003,6:10)]Oh, thanks for giving me your best Big J!

Thanks for the prayers as well, I know you all mean well by them.
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No prob.
Hey, if you need anything...just ask.
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i hate to make this light but from the implications of your post it sounds like your step brother and this girl did have some sort of in appriotate phyical contact, that could be any form of sex, and this will sound insanely harsh, but good for her. if the guy cant controll him self i guess he does deserve to be locked up in a prision for a few years, that goes for all guys.
 
the kicker is that this can impact the whole family and not just the step brother. that's not fair. the law system today is whacked
 
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Quote[/b] (LionOfJudah @ Oct. 13 2003,9:24)]i hate to make this light but from the implications of your post it sounds like your step brother and this girl did have some sort of in appriotate phyical contact, that could be any form of sex, and this will sound insanely harsh, but good for her. if the guy cant controll him self i guess he does deserve to be locked up in a prision for a few years, that goes for all guys.
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adj.

1. Of or expressing a consensus: a consensual decision.
2.
1. Law. Existing or entered into by mutual consent without formalization by document or ceremony: a consensual marriage; a consensual contract.
2. Involving the willing participation of both or all parties, especially in an illegal transaction or practice: the consensual crimes of prostitution, drug abuse, and illegal gambling.

edit --> And BTW, this isn't about jail anymore, as she rescinded her RAPE! charge - now they're just suing for everything Medjai's already lacking family has
 
Well what LOJ was saying is that Medjai's step brother shouldent have violated such a covenent. Not that I think he had a right to say what he said. Good she got rid of the rape charge. I dont think they will be able to win she has already been proven false and I pray that the judge will see the other things are false as well.
 
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Quote[/b] (LionOfJudah @ Oct. 13 2003,8:24)]i hate to make this light but from the implications of your post it sounds like your step brother and this girl did have some sort of in appriotate phyical contact, that could be any form of  sex, and this will sound insanely harsh, but good for her. if the guy cant controll him self i guess he does deserve to be locked up in a prision for a few years, that goes for all guys.
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So what?
If he raped her, I would be all in favor of going Leviticus on him.

They were 2 HS students that messed around. Why do you think Muslims make women were Hajibs?

So he should be punished for doing that? Why? IT IS NOT ILLEGAL.

Does any Christian here see why I am against the theocracy becoming stronger? Here we have a situation where nolaws were broken, yet LOJ says he should still go to prison.

BTW, if you want to play the "statutory rape" card, fine. Problem is, he doesn't seem to have been charged with that.
 
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