...The Bible is full of stories of bad things happening because God wanted them to. Job and Joseph are both great examples....
God didn't "want" Job to go through what he went through. God allowed it, and used it for His kingdom.
We are too quick to give satan and evil power and credit for things that happen that we don't understand. ... But we also see in his conversation with God that he is limited to what he can and can't do....
Just because God allows something doesn't mean that He "wants" it to happen or it was "His plan". He can however, use anything, good or bad.
What this does tell us though, is that satan isn't all powerful, and still has to answer to God.
However, when we look at these events (or any "bad" thing that happens) we must realize either God was powerless to stop it or He allowed it to happen. If He allowed it to happen then He is to some degree complicit in what happened. ...
I'm sorry, but this makes no sense. Because God allows something it means He was involved in it? God allows "free will" it doesn't mean He agrees with, approves of, or is involved in the choices. To be clear, I'm not saying He can't be involved, but He gave us the ability to choose, and not everything that happens is God's will.
This means either He is also evil or these events server some greater purpose that only He understands.
I don't see a biblical basis for this...
The lost will always want to know why a Loving God could allow such evil to exist and to do the things they do, why bad things happen to good people. The inconvenient truth for us is that it serves His will and purpose. If we hope to win them to Christ, we must find a way to explain how these events fit His love for us instead of giving satan the credit in such a generic answer as "evil exists".
I disagree with you. God's will isn't done automatically. When God decided to give us free will, He gave us the opportunity to follow His will, or our own. In the end, His will, will be done. But what happens in between now and then is up to us. He can use our choices to further His kingdom if we allow it, but not everything that happens is because God willed it that way.
As a side note, it seems that every time something like this happens, people turn to God for comfort and answers. Less than 3000 people died in the 9/11 attacks and almost the entire nation turned to God for a good long while. However, over 3000 children are aborted in the US each day and it generates no extra anger or prayer. ...
That is sad, but satan is a master at what he does, and if he can use people's apathy (and he does) then he will.
It is easy for Christians (and others) to use the "God's plan" view for comfort when something bad happens. If you submit to God's will, then He can use what happened for His "plan." However, just because something bad happens, doesn't mean that it's God's will. He CAN use every bad/tragic/terrible event for His "plan" but it isn't automatically His "plan." Does this mean that God never allows/causes stuff to happen? The bible is evident of this happening much in the OT where He was passing judgement, etc. , and there are examples of death/sickness/possession in the NT where it is used to show the power of Christ. Now did God cause this or allow it? I don't know, I don't claim to understand God. What I can say though, is that not everything that happens is God's will.