Source: My Friend, the AtheistWith these personal experiences I have been driven again and again to the question: what does it look like to love your atheist friend? Not in the abstract; not in the form of some cloudy, benevolent feeling; but loving in real actions that take place in real circumstances. The following ideas form the core of what I have tried, though certainly not always succeeded, to do.
A great read for those with atheist friends or family members.
It also caused me to wonder if it can possibly be wise to attempt debating with atheists on public forums. The strongest proofs in favor of the existence and goodness of God in my life come when I am alone or witnessing unexpected strength of character in Christians. A public forum may simply not be a channel to communicate love and human reason, as Scriptures repeatedly tell us, is folly before the ways of God.
The article also reminded me why I tend to cringe at the style of evangelism where Christians walk up to complete strangers and ask them, "If you died tonight, where would you go?" and other questions of a deeply personal nature. I'm not saying that it doesn't work or that it isn't a valid way of pointing people in the direction of Christ. I'm just admitting that it wasn't a method with which I personally felt comfortable.