Article: My Friend, the Atheist

Tek7

CGA President, Tribe of Judah Founder & President
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With these personal experiences I have been driven again and again to the question: what does it look like to love your atheist friend? Not in the abstract; not in the form of some cloudy, benevolent feeling; but loving in real actions that take place in real circumstances. The following ideas form the core of what I have tried, though certainly not always succeeded, to do.
Source: My Friend, the Atheist

A great read for those with atheist friends or family members.

It also caused me to wonder if it can possibly be wise to attempt debating with atheists on public forums. The strongest proofs in favor of the existence and goodness of God in my life come when I am alone or witnessing unexpected strength of character in Christians. A public forum may simply not be a channel to communicate love and human reason, as Scriptures repeatedly tell us, is folly before the ways of God.

The article also reminded me why I tend to cringe at the style of evangelism where Christians walk up to complete strangers and ask them, "If you died tonight, where would you go?" and other questions of a deeply personal nature. I'm not saying that it doesn't work or that it isn't a valid way of pointing people in the direction of Christ. I'm just admitting that it wasn't a method with which I personally felt comfortable.
 
Please no bashing, as this is my own opinion and not that of ToJ or any other organization.

After being taught Old Testament Religion in college by an atheist I've learned a lot about debates and our religion. I believe that it can be wise in debating an atheist, but only on certain topics, none of which are trying to prove or dis-prove Christianity. Most out spoken atheists have thoroughly studied the Bible and most other works from the same time-line. And, unless you have put in more man hours studying these they will most likely have you beat on research bases. Atheists are very good and debating and vary quickly they go on the offensive and you are put in to a defensive battle, just waiting to lose or draw. So, IMO the best debates with atheists aren't Christian ones, but debates on what they believe on how we became to be what we are today. Most atheists have dismissed any belief systems that require a supreme being, and have taken their belief to a scientific state. So, I've always attacked then on the science they base their beliefs on.

As I studied Engineering at Iowa State I learned that the biggest difference between Scientist and Engineers is that Scientist will input unknown variables to "guess-a-mate" the solution, while engineers require no unknowns they only deal with known values to get the the solution or the solution is unknown. Thus, why Scientists guess at the age of the Earth and they guess at carbon dating. These are not engineering solutions they are using very complex equations and the most finite variable can cause millions of years difference in the age of the Earth. There is tons of this information if you know what to look for on the internet, but the point is that the only real way to succeed in a debate with an atheist is to keep on the offensive and put then in a defensive position.

I also have to view point like Tek where I don't like pressuring people into following my faith. I more follow the path that I don't just act Christian on Sunday in church, but everyday of the week. I try to live my faith every day in the hopes that those who are lost or seeking help will see that you can find true happiness through our faith and that it's nothing to be ashamed of during the week and it's not some Sunday morning ritual we do, because we have to, but because we want to.
 
one thing i've learned in my short of amount of experiences is that there is a truth and power in love- something that I don't believe athiests can really deny. Something about genuine love and care for someone really effects people, and while athiests may try to shrug it off as human, I think it's a pretty big sign that there is something more to the equation. I wrote a whole shin dig on some tangent and erased it all.. so here's my condensed thoughts before I get going on something hardly related :p

ps. Tek, I as well, cringe at the evangelism techniques of many Christians... probably including myself at some points in time.
 
ps. Tek, I as well, cringe at the evangelism techniques of many Christians... probably including myself at some points in time.
Understood.

I did want to clarify that I'm not bashing "street evangelism," nor debating its effectiveness. I simply didn't feel comfortable taking that approach myself. Other people with other personalities may feel no such awkwardness in using more direct approaches.
 
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