Eon, these are the facts.
If you are not a Christian then you will get a chance to see God, however this will not be the day where you question God, it will be the day when God questions you. That day will be horrifying above all else for those who don't believe.
First, all people will be silent in that day.
Zec 2:13 "Be silent, all flesh, before the LORD, for He is aroused from His holy habitation!"
All enemies of the cross will have their ability to see, speak and run taken away. Whether this is figurative or physical makes no difference:
Zechariah 14:12-13 | And this shall be the plague with which the LORD will strike all the people who fought against Jerusalem: Their flesh shall dissolve while they stand on their feet, Their eyes shall dissolve in their sockets, And their tongues shall dissolve in their mouths. It shall come to pass in that day That a great panic from the LORD will be among them. Everyone will seize the hand of his neighbor, And raise his hand against his neighbor’s hand;
Your questions almost seemed angry toward God, or prideful. Yet in that day no pride against God will stand. The judgement will be a glorious display of God's power and majesty. The most powerful men in history will be turned to whimpering babies in that day:
Revelation 6:15-17 And the kings of the earth, the great men, the rich men, the commanders, the mighty men, every slave and every free man, hid themselves in the caves and in the rocks of the mountains, and said to the mountains and rocks, "Fall on us and hide us from the face of Him who sits on the throne and from the wrath of the Lamb! For the great day of His wrath has come, and who is able to stand?"
Revelation 19:11-16 "Now I saw heaven opened, and behold, a white horse. And He who sat on him was called Faithful and True, and in righteousness He judges and makes war. His eyes were like a flame of fire, and on His head were many crowns. He had a name written that no one knew except Himself. He was clothed with a robe dipped in blood, and His name is called The Word of God. And the armies in heaven, clothed in fine linen, white and clean, followed Him on white horses. Now out of His mouth goes a sharp sword, that with it He should strike the nations. And He Himself will rule them with a rod of iron. He Himself treads the winepress of the fierceness and wrath of Almighty God. And He has on His robe and on His thigh a name written: KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS.
There will be no question period where one may present a defense, because God is a Just Judge and His judgments are right. Instead judgment will be swift and final.
Revelation 20:12-15 And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books. The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire.
God will also judge everyones deeds in public, before the whole world, recalling every evil. This will be the unbelievers most shameful day. Yet for the believer it will be the day of final redemption. We shall be saved from the wrath to come!