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Shyfroggy, I sent you a PM yesterday. Atown, I also talked this with you earlier, and I agree with Hmmmm in that don't be too hasty in this relationship without asking what God wants first. You especially need to be careful in relationships with girls.

My favorites are Delirious, U2, Jars of Clay, Caedmon's Call and Matt Redman.

I agree, there are some relationships worth holding on to, but I don't think it should be a concern. :p If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out.

8.5/10 Looks nice, needs more OOMPH.

I agree that relationships take work to keep going, but I do not agree that it should be of concern. Friendships come and go, but God is always there.

Why is it your concern? What should matter, first and foremost, is your relationship with God. If your relationship with Star was really "meant to be" then it would happen, correct?

Here's a tip: Instead of looking for someone who is attractive, has a great personality, and/or has similar interests, I suggest looking at a lady's character first and foremost. Here's another tip: Think about all the qualities that you would want in a girl. Go ahead and go nuts with this...

I agree. Sorry, I missed the "spirit of the Lord" part of your statement. I disagree. We are very much in control of most of our relationships. God may have an ultimate plan for each of us, but that does not mean we do not have free will. No, it means you go into a relationship carefully and if...

Nice quote. You just summarized everything I said with one sentence. :(

"Everything is permissible"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible"—but not everything is constructive. - 1 Corinthians 10:23 I could go ahead and quit school, smoke weed, and have as many girls as I can get. It might be fun for a while, but it'll just end up making my...

And that's good. I don't think people should be kissing or snuggling or anything similar, because it is pretty much for gratifying your own desires. The reason I asked is because if you don't hold a stronger stance, you'd be treading on dangerous territory if you ever get tempted.

It has little to do with "right" and "wrong". As Paul writes, everything is permissable, but not everything is beneficial. The problem with "dating" or if you prefer, "courtship" is that many people are tempted to go into dating too early, or they have the wrong attitude with it. For anyone...

So I wonder if they are changing it for anything relating to religion, such as Buddhism, Judaism, Atheist, etc.

My reasons for why this is not true is for several reasons... First off, it is very stereotypical, as is most generalizations. Second, I can see why you may be led to think guys do not have deep convos, but then I can think the same way about certain girls. Third, part of it is our culture and...

How would you differentiate this relationship from a boyfriend/girlfriend one? Second, do you have a youth pastor or youth leader at your church?

I used to think this way. However, it simply is not true. Generalizing guys like this is offensive and stereotypical. Sorry, I assumed "deep convos" meant things like personal issues, spiritual walk, etc. Philosophical debates are less dangerous. Just be watchful though... if you find yourself...

Well, it's incredibly difficult to distinguish what the "good" and "bad" sides are in Starcraft... obviously we have good guys like uninfested Kerrigan, Raynor, Duke... but then there's guys like Mengsk who are not so good. Once you get to Brood War, each race really has maybe two or three sides...

Mad props for using that Bible verse. It's one of my all-time favorites (I used to run cross country)

In that case, I really wouldn't worry about it. If she just wants to be friends right now, you should respect that. If you guys aren't dating, I would advise not to have any deep convos with her... it may be tempting to do so, but really, it could also run the risk of making you too attached...

Just wondering, did she give a reason for the breakup? Did you guys end it on good terms?