I keep missing people, too. And to make matters more challenging, I'm not all that sure how to find anyone. I tried typing in a few names from the "add friends" function, but all my sent requests were either rejected or a message showed up saying that person has was not logged on.
I've leveled up a Chanter (lvl 10 as of right now), so if anyone sees "Rone" running around, I could sure use a guild invite. Thanks!