I did a little research into this and found a few mods for joining AV with your friends. On the WowAceUpdater there is one listed named "SmartQue" that would seem to fit the bill. Another is "AVqq" that was on the Curse site. They both appeared adequate but required all to have that mod running who wished to join at the same time.
I also discussed the mod in guild chat and the "legality" of such a mod came up. One person heard from a friend that there was a group of Hordies who used a simular mod; they reportedly had such success that they were reported and subsequantly banned for using that kind of mod. Then later another said joining as a group was a technical problem and Blizz does not care if you can do it. (I do not use a chat logger and have a tremendously hard time with names - neither do I want any pointing of fingers.) This is a viable concernto me and after checking the WOW forums, I could not find anything about anyone being banned for such a mod. If you know of such, please let me know.
Also, please indicate which addon you would choose to use.
I also discussed the mod in guild chat and the "legality" of such a mod came up. One person heard from a friend that there was a group of Hordies who used a simular mod; they reportedly had such success that they were reported and subsequantly banned for using that kind of mod. Then later another said joining as a group was a technical problem and Blizz does not care if you can do it. (I do not use a chat logger and have a tremendously hard time with names - neither do I want any pointing of fingers.) This is a viable concernto me and after checking the WOW forums, I could not find anything about anyone being banned for such a mod. If you know of such, please let me know.
Also, please indicate which addon you would choose to use.