God ftw!
Yes, we believe that the deceitfulness made us pay heavy prices. It was causing us to "rot on the inside," or so to speak. It's amazing how something like that can really mess you over. I thank God so much for my parents. Despite the insanity my dad has (he's borderline and schitzophrentic) and the paranoia my mom has, they both are childern of God and have so much wisdom and love. It's truely amazing.
If ya'll want to, g2 mysapce.com/starrs_universe because I like to keep any and all friends close. Eh, but let's not mention the enemies ^_~
Anywayz, if we held our relationship under a box so that his parents didn't know, he would basically be "stealing" from his parents because they specifically said that they did not want Atown to date anyone during his time at school. That includes even me. If he does, they will withold any financial aid from him and call it "tough love." It is really their decision and their right to do such a thing, but I still do not believe it is what God wants of them.
I feel sort of selfish, asking Atown to reveal what we really feel about each other and that we want to be together because he will receive no money and will have to work on his own. Me, on the other hand, will be receiving some aid from my folks. So I desperately pray his parents will come around and that they listen to the Lord. I feel selfish also that I put myself in front of him. But my dad explained it as putting our relationship in front of ourselves, which makes alot of sense. We would both be dragging ourselves in the dirt with a noose around our necks if we tried to avoid each other. So yes, we could go to WSU without dating and he could receive aid from his parents, but that literally will degenerate our relationship exponentially. So, the best option is to face his parents with honesty, and with a plan to support himself without them.
*Starr*