Can 'anyone' use a prayer request?

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Can 'anyone' use a prayer request?

Christians, 'non-Christians'
'Athiests', non-athiests
Believers, 'non-believers'
Dying, 'not dying'
'Living', not living

Anyone, or just religious people only?
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anyone can. i have often had non-believers in a troubling situation or time talk to me and i just tell them i will pray for them and they say thanks.
 
When someone says they will pray for me (for whatever reason, usually family) I smile and thank them.

Do I believe their prayers will be answered? No, obviously because I don't believe there IS a God. But that doesn't mean I don't appreciate their sentiment. That is what is appreciated, the effort they undertook to help.
 
That attitude is really appreciated, Dark Virtue.  Some people get pretty upset when a Christian, in all kindness, says something like that.  So I'm glad you can see the sentiment behind it.
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I've had an experience like the one LoJ described.  My friend's mother was sick, and I offered to pray for her.  She said thanks, she was never into that kind of thing, but it was cool if I wanted to.  Even if there's nothing else I can do, it's one little way I can try to be helpful and show I care.

Even if a person isn't a believer, I don't see how prayer could "hurt" anything.  If no one's there hearing the prayer, then you won't be any worse off than you were in the first place.  But, assuming God is up there listening, it's probably a good thing!

As far as living/dying...Shoot, if you believe in prayer, there's ALWAYS something to pray about.
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Then whats the 'word' when everyone is holding hands, bowing their heads, praying, and then saying, "Amen."?

Don't tell me thats a praise......
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I have a question regarding prayer...

What causes a prayer to be answered? Not all prayers are answered, that is pretty obvious. So why does God answer some prayers and not others?

(And I'm not talking about stupid prayers like asking for a corvette or things like that).
 
I heard once in a sermon that some prayers aren't answered because of selfish reasons.

Maybe, when we pray because we don't want someone to die, we don't want them to die, not because of their suffering, but because we do not want them to die. In the end, praying to end someone suffering may be because we ourselves do not want to go on without that person, rather than thinking about that stopping the pain of that person in particular.

Sorry If I don't make much sense, but It was a thought I had back then. Maybe many prayers are unintentionally selfish, in ways we don't know, because at the root of our prayer, it may be we are looking out for #1.
 
Hmmm DV I usually don't get into these discussions but this one I feel strongly about. ( Maybe cause I do the prayer newsletter but probably more cause God puts it in my heart.)

I have a place in the newletter for prayer for the world which includes at the end for all nonbelievers. So first yes to the beginning of this topic. All people regardless of what they believe can use prayers.

Now to the topic of answered or unanswered prayers. Sometimes God says yes, sometimes no, sometimes wait.... meaning this is not His time to answer the prayer with a yes or a no. Just because we want something does not make it for our good. I know you do not believe at this point anyway and that may be God not answering the prayers of those of us who pray for you and other nonbelievers. Look at the verse Romans 8:28. I do not like quoting over and over here but know that you at least look up scriptures which is the first possibility of God really opening your heart to him.

BTW I have a lot of not yet prayers. One would be having a child here on earth. God has decided He needed more angels with Him. Another one would be the fact that I have a nonchristian husband. I do not push my beliefs on him because I truly believe in God's timing He will win his heart.
I am still able to sing God's praises though because I know that He has more blessings then I can imagine in store for me when it is His time.
Just a couple of examples. Hope I have answered some of your questions.

I do not like to argue or try to push so I choose to stay a bit away from the ones that get a bit heated. When it's God's time for me to holler I explain my understanding on a lot of the things you guys are questioning here. Blessings,"Angel"
 
Thanks Litsafalda.

Question: Do you believe that, eventually, God will convert your husband? What if he never converts? How do you handle the "unequally yoked" thing?

How do you know God answered your prayers? I know most Christians don't believe in chance or luck, but it IS possible.

I'm sorry, but I don't buy into the whole prayer thing one bit. That's more than just a personal opinion, I can not believe in something that I see no proof of or evidence for.
 
Smiles Hmm I really didn't want to get into a big discussion, but I want to ask a question back first. DV I need to know if you have a wife, brother, mother, father, significant other, etc keep adding any family or friend???
If so do you "LOVE" them?
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If you do and if you do, how do you explain it?
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How can you explain that emotion?
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? It is not really able to be measured from the standards you just asked. ( Every one this is a question for DV and those who do not believe in prayer and things you "can't prove. I do not want the believers going on about this as I am asking him a question for all to ponder not answer. THANK YOU !!)

ANSWERS: See 1 Cor 7:13-16 Also I truly believe in God's perfect timing in all things. If you do not subscribe to the prayer newsletter please do if for no other reason to read the POTW section. I cover a lot of themes there which God choses. Most of them are mine, some are from some of the others. BTW it is my husband's choice to either accept or deny Jesus. It is my prayer that God will find a way in his heart just like it is that prayer I have for all nonbelievers.

Hmmm how does God answer my prayers. In whatever way He choses. With this last loss of my third pregnancy, we got one step closer. Now we are getting medical answers that we would not have been allowed to find out without this loss. Also if you read my POTW that I wrote right after this last loss, it was a special edition I will try to get it for you if you would like a copy of it, you would see MY GOD does answer my prayers. If He didn't I would not be able to praise Him for His goodness and mercy and I would be totally lost.

Also I have another thought that just came into my head. Probably God talking to me yet again. I did walk away for a bit and I will honestly tell you I have not followed the laws like I should, but when I did this something was missiing. A huge part of my heart was just lost and lonely and not knowing what to do.

Again this is probably more then I really want to say so for now those are the answers I can give you. I hope that MY GOD will talk to your heart and get in a bit further. I do not think you would question things so much if you weren't at a place where you need understanding.
Blessings,"Angel"
 
Many, many Christians claim that God is the one thing that fulfills some emptyness in their lives. Religion often fills this seemingly "empty" hole. The truth is everyone feels this way at one point in time and it can be filled by many things other than religion.

There are many questions I would like to ask, but I will not as I feel they will cross some personal line and I don't want to get too personal.

As for Love, are you asserting that only through God could we know what Love is? I disagree. I can define love, that is as simple as looking in a dictionary. Can I tell you WHY I love my wife? Of course I can. The answer isn't metaphysical. All of our feelings are based on rationale. Love, hate, lust, envy, et al. They are all rational feelings. I don't understand why you think that feelings can't be rationalized or explained.

If you would like to discuss this further, I would be more than happy to. I haven't gone into detail because you said you didn't wish to get into a big discussion. If you change your mind, let me know.
 
Smiles I was wondering what you answer would be to that question. This is why. To me my faith and all that I believe that is tied up in that is the same type of "emotion" ( I am using that word to give some definition) as love is. ( or any of those other emotions you have used.) {Just for your benefit I go to a quieter type of church even though we do have a praise and worship service a few times a month.}
I used "love" earlier because I did not think you would say you did not know what it is. Yes it says in the Bible that God is love and love is used a lot there. The reason I asked you did you believe in love was because to me it's not provable the way you are saying our faith is not provable or our answered prayers are not. I see proof in all of these things every day the love, the faith, the answered prayers even when it's a wait on My time.
If you feel you may get too personal or want to keep others out of things you can always email me [litsafalda@yahoo.com]or im me. I usually choose not to get too involved here because sometimes people do not act like Ladies and Gentlemen. BTW I do not judge I let God judge as it is His place and you would not believe some of the things I have been told or asked etc. I also take the very simple view childlike as it's stated in the Bible. I would rather just believe in my Lord and Savior and let Him figure the rest of the things out. I have also asked my pastor to pop in here soon to see some of the discussion to see if he can give better answers to some of the questions that have been posed lately.
Blessings,"Angel"
 
Hmmm, as well written as that reply was, there is a problem with it.

Love is an emotion.  Faith is not.  Faith is a belief, an assertation of the belief in things that you can not prove.  There different types of love as there are types of faith.  Eros, Ludis, Philo, Storge, Pragma, Mania and Agape are types of love.  I have faith that the sun will rise tomorrow.  Why?  Because history has shown that the sun rises every day.  I don't have faith in the existence of gods because there is no evidence to support their existence.  Religious Faith, on the other hand, supports the existence of things that are not proveable, such as the existence of God.  I assert that you are NOT seeing proof of God because that is contrary to Faith.  If there was indeed proof, actual reasonable proof of the existence of God, then there would not be any need discussion.  Proof, however, is lacking.  Which is why Faith is needed.

Let's try and steer this discussion back on track.

There is no evidence to show that prayer works.  There is no evidence to show that God is listening.  There is no evidence to show that God answers prayer.  You only have FAITH that He does.  

Let's look at what the gospels say about prayer:

Matthew 21:22 -- And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith.

Matthew 7:7-8 -- [7] Ask, and it will be given you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you [8] For every one who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.

Mark 11:23-24 -- [23] Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, 'Be taken up and cast into the sea,' and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him. [24] Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

John 14:13 -- Whatever you ask in my name, I will do it, that the Father may be glorified in the Son.

Please note that these verses say, "you WILL receive".  They do not say, MAYBE you will receive.  You can play twister with these words all you want, but they are very clear.  Any believer that asks will receive.

Now look at what is said about Elijah:

James 5:17-18  [17] Eli'jah was a man of like nature with ourselves and he prayed fervently that it might not rain, and for three years and six months it did not rain on the earth. [18] Then he prayed again and the heaven gave rain, and the earth brought forth its fruit.

Elijah was a man of nature LIKE OUR OWN and had his prayer of no rain answered...and then he asked for rain again and got it.  That prayer seems a lot less worthy of being answered than the healing of one of God's people.  Yet how many people die every day because prayers were not answered?  The easy answer is because God is sovereign.  The simple answer is prayers are not answered which is contrary to the verses above which state that whatever is asked for will be granted.

Why is it that when prayers are answered it is because of divine intervention, but when prayers go unheeded, the fault tends to fall on the person that was praying?  

1 John 5
14 This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. 15 And if we know that he hears us--whatever we ask--we know that we have what we asked of him.

How plain is that?  WHATEVER you ask according to His will, not some things, not maybe, but WHATEVER you ask you will have.

Now, if you and so many others have been so selfless as to pray for my conversion, why hasn't it happened?  It's God's will that all be in His kingdom, no?  Then asking for my conversion would definately be in His will.  Sorry, it hasn't happened.  

There seems to be a logical dilemma here.  How do you reconcile these verses?

One final example, let's look at the Lord's prayer. The prayer includes, "Give us this day our daily bread." Why do you pray for this? If you ask for bread, will God deliver it? If God isn't going to deliver it, why ask for it? This one prayer alone could end starvation in Africa...if only it worked.
 
You quoted it hon. His will not mine not yours but His. I also do not believe that an unanswered pray or one that someone thinks is unanswered is the fault of the prayer it was either HIS WILL to say no or HIS WILL to say wait. I also knew you were gonna use the definitions. Faith has more definitions then something you believe without proof. And if you look up emotions it about things not cognitive. And sorry but MY faith is an emotion as well as a bit more it does cause other things to happen like love etc can. It is also probably why I didn't sit this one out like I have so many other discussions. BTW I actually have proof of an answered prayer. My pastor and the pastor that filled our vacancy both prayed a very specific prayer. What was it??? Well you see the second pastor was in the hospital with a hole in his colon. The dr's saw this on all the medical tests etc for your knowledge. They prayed for it to heal and it did and it amazed the dr's because they could not find a reason why it would have disappeared. Another thing I will say is this. God works through people. The pastor who was a vacancy pastor allowed us to be annointed if we so chose to. I decided to even though I had not ever been able to speak to him about what my troubles were. God put a prayer in his heart that he prayed for me that there was no other way he would have known without God intervening. Faith as an emotion yes it is. It is probably why so many people here when expressing how the feel get so caught up in things.
Two examples of answered prayers from me. Do I have unanswered ones or even ones that are no??? Yes I do but they are all answered IN HIS TIME and by HIS WILL.
Blessings,"Angel"
 
DV Love is not always an emotion. In marriage, you love eachother, sometimes its harder than others.

Faith and Love both are committments to someone, just two different names. IMO
 
LOVE is an emotion.

MARRIAGE is a commitment.

FAITH is neither an emotion nor a commitment, it is a justification for a belief.  An unreasonable justification I might ad.
 
Love is a word used to describe a feeling.
Faith is something we are all bound to, because no one can prove there is or isnt a God so you must have faith either way.

We can pray for anyone, I often for everyone as a whole.
 
[b said:
Quote[/b] ]Love is a word used to describe a feeling.

That is exactly what I said.  Love=Emotion

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Quote[/b] ]Faith is something we are all bound to, because no one can prove there is or isnt a God so you must have faith either way.

You are most incorrect.  Nontheists are not bound by faith, we do not have FAITH that God doesn't exist.  We don't believe in the existence of a God because there is a lack of evidence to prove otherwise.  Faith does not enter the picture.  Atheism, Agnosticism, etc are not religions, they do not rely on Faith for a belief.
 
I concur with the DV on this one. Faith is not an emotion, nor is it something that 'we are all bound to.' It's a way to approach belief; a thinking strategy. Not an effective one, but popular nonetheless.
 
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