The only server other than ours that really got "toj" together in one place is Christian Crew's. I've listed the servers I use most frequently below.
Christan Crew's stock maps. These servers have people on it quite frequently and is my first recommendation. I don't always play on it though because, well, some of the CC people are much better than me but others are just kids and, well, not better than me XD. When they are packed with the not better ones I start feeling guilty XD.
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69.13.38.156:27015
Christan Crew's custom maps. No random crits. It hasn't seen a lot of people lately.
69.13.38.155:27015
Soldier for Christ No random crits. Unfortunately it's not been getting a lot of use lately either.
69.13.38.158:27015
Ego clan (not Christian) servers are below. They have at least a tiny bit of moderation on them. Note they don't want Steam names with url's in them so they may ask you to change your [toj.cc] tag to [toj]. While willing I forget frequently and have occasionally been politely reminded.
208.43.76.159:27015 No random crits
208.43.203.92:27015 24/7 Egypt map server
208.43.203.93:27016 24/7 Blackmesa custom map
208.43.203.94:27015 24/7 2fort map, fast respawn
208.43.203.93:27015 24/7 2fort map, instant respawn
Source Op. For the love of mike if you go to any of the below servers be sure to turn off sprays if you have not already!!! No moderation on these servers but they almost always have people.
67.228.59.144:27015 No random crits
67.228.59.145:27015 Stock rotation, no mods
74.55.49.243:27015 Stock rotation, no mods
74.55.49.245:27015 24/7 Goldrush no mods
67.228.59.146:27015 24/7 2Fort, instant respawn
67.228.59.147:27015 24/7 2Fort, no mods
For the record I dislike instant respawn in TF2, particularly on 2Fort. It is like a retarded deathmatch mode in TF2 however the instant respawn 2fort servers always seem to have people on them XD. Instant respawn is bested in dislike only by my loathing of RTD servers (it's a mod which when you type RTD (Roll The Dice) gives out random things like temporary invincibility, invisibility, noclip or, if unlucky, death).
None of the servers I've listed have bots running that as far as I can tell. I've been on other servers out there which are dishonest and conceal they are running bots. I don't think the above do though.
I will not play on any server with RTD or bots and only put up with instant respawn if other servers are vacant. I also much prefer no random crit servers.